Anchored in Love™

We are all more powerful than we’ve been taught.

Teaching What Textbooks Can’t™.

25 years · 30,000+ young people · 100’s of schools

Our intention

This is what we believe.

At the heart of Love4Life™ is one belief: we are far more powerful than we’ve learned.

We mean personal power. The power to choose who we are and how we meet life’s storms, even when we can’t control what’s happening around us.

In any moment, we can choose four things: what we think, what we say, what we do, and how we feel. We call it the Control4™ framework. Simple enough for a child to understand. Strong enough to change an adult’s life.

Love4Life™ exists so every child, parent, teacher, and team can say and believe: I matter. I have a voice. I have choices. I have personal power.

And then use that power for good. Love for self. Love for others. Love for the world around us.

One Anchor can change a moment. One moment can change a life.

Three loves

Love for self. Love for others. Love for the world.

Love for self

Knowing you matter, and treating yourself that way.

Love for others

Listening, empathy, and showing up for the people around you.

Love for the world

Using your power for good, wherever you are.

The founders

Two mothers. One mission.

Patricia Jones, Founder and Creator of Love4Life

Patricia Jones

Founder & Creator of Love4Life™

Patricia Jones is an educator, author, and the creator of Love4Life™ and Control4. For more than 25 years, she has taught life skills to over 30,000 young people across Los Angeles, from under-resourced and gang-affected schools to corporate boardrooms. Along the way she trained parents, educators, counselors, coaches, and wellness professionals to teach it too, and saw the same breakthroughs at every age.

Patricia holds the CBEST educator credential, is a Certified Diversity Specialist, and serves as an educational rights holder for youth in foster care. She is a wife and mother, and she teaches every kids' class in Cohort One.

Carissa Hetrick, Co-Founder of Love4Life Academy

Carissa Hetrick

Co-Founder

Carissa Hetrick teaches the Parent Program and leads the Academy’s growth. She spent 20 years building some of the most trusted household brands in America at two companies, Procter & Gamble and Church & Dwight, rising to Director.

Carissa is an ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and a mom of three. She knows the Parent Program from both sides of the room: she teaches it, and she lives it at her own kitchen table.

Find your place

Which program is right for you?

Love4Life Academy™ is professional, non-clinical education and skill-building for families. It supports growth and life skills and is not therapy or medical care. If your child is in crisis, contact a licensed provider or call or text 988 in the United States.

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